Sunday, March 27, 2005

Easter

Not surprisingly, L. and I woke up this morning not feeling all that great (thanks to last night's hot pot). We barely stumbled into fellowship at GICF. Lots of singing, lots of praise choruses and hymns giving honor to Christ's resurrection. The speaker gave a sermon on Matthew 28. We later had lunch with the church, sharing a table with some Nigerian and Congolese brothers. We watched a play and song performance put on by the Sunday School children...but we left early, the quesiness in our stomachs just too much.

The taxi took us a long, but faster, way back. The driver said there was a couple of conventions and didn't want to get caught in traffic. We were too sick to contest his advice, so we let him. He took a toll bridge to get there. It was indeed faster, but the ride cost rmb 70. A usual ride is around RMB 40-50. He came across more pleasant and friendly than most drivers we encounter, even trying to make conversation with us. But we couldn't help but feel a bit snookered by him. Of course, we had no way to disbelieve him, but even if we did, we weren't in any shape to argue, so we paid the 70 and went home. And as if things couldn't get worse, the power was out when we got back.

After a 4-hour nap, I felt better. By then, the power had come back on. L., however, felt worse after her nap. Not only was her stomach not fully functional, but her cold and sinus infection still hadn't subsided. After watching "David Letterman" and "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" (L. enjoys this show, but it's not for me), we went back to bed.

Hoping this was just a weekend bug...

Saturday, March 26, 2005

Hot pot too hot for our pots

Yesterday, our friend from England, J., and his girlfriend, C., stopped by for a visit. We watched "Trading Places" and then went into town for dinner. They took us to a hot-pot restaurant that they enjoyed. It was quite spicy, with Szechuan peppers and the like, but quite tasty overall. Fortunately, we also ordered some yogurt to act as extinguishers.

On the way home, it became apparent to me that something wasn't agreeing with my stomach. Same with L. Let's just say we frequented the bathroom throughout that night. It was probably some meat that wasn't fully cooked. Sleep that night was difficult to come by.

Friday, March 25, 2005

Our 6th month anniversary

L. had to teach this morning, but we celebrated by going to the same Brazilian restaurant we went to for my b'day. This was dinner, so we had a live music played by a 3-person Brazilian bandgroup.

After dinner we walked to the subway station and went to a 3-self church for the Good Friday service. It was in progress when we arrived, around 7:30 pm. The church was dark, save a few dim lights. We sang several hymns, including "The Wondrous Cross". The Chinese hymns were very beautiful. The congregation's voices echoed warmly throughout the old church's walls. A couple of young women prayed, at times choking back tears, leading the church in confessional prayers, remembering and praising Jesus for his various sufferings, and quoting John 3:16. A man, presumably a pastor, encouraged everyone to be lights to the world in their faith. A choir later left, carrying lit candles. The church was full, tho' not overflowing. Not a bad turnout, tho', for a service on a weekday right after work for most people. It was mostly filled with young people in their 20's, I'd say. Both of us were touched by the sincerity of the service. It was entirely in Chinese, but hearts can be stirred despite the language barrier.

Thursday, March 24, 2005

English Corner at the cafe

One of L's students from last year bought a space behind our campus and turned it into a coffee shop. However, business has been floundering since most Chinese don't believe in having coffee at night, so most of the students are eager for alcohol rather than coffee. L. believes it's a great place for folks to study as well as hang out, especially since there is absolutely nothing around here by way of recreational activity for these students. She was hoping to do something like that this year, and after hearing about E's cafe, was ecstatic. We've agreed to help him by basically being his PR. Folks will come in droves if that gives them an opportunity to speak to a native English speaker in order to improve their English. Today was the first "English Corner" to see how we'd do. L. agreed to make a few "western" snacks to give them the idea of how a coffee house in America is set up. It was actually for yesterday, but there was a conflicting event and we decided to move it to "Thursday" from "Wednesday"

So, this afternoon E. called and said he advertised an English corner for tonight. For tonight! We ended up scrambling to fix snacks to sell at the café. E. came by to help, as well as get more food. We made some quesadillas, Indian cookies, chips, sandwiches, and French toast strips.

We walked there around 6 pm. Not more than 5 minutes after we arrived, college students started arriving. As the evening drew on, the café was bustling with over 25 students! We talked about everything from how we met, getting citizenship in different countries, marriage, romance, our backgrounds, reasons for going to school, differences between life in America and China, NBA basketball, importance/unimportance of money, meaning of being content, and "Fahrenheit 9/11". After a break for drinks and snacks, Lima and I found ourselves split into separate groups talking. The group of girls I talked with asked me about my thoughts on China and Taiwan. Even though I shared with them some of my hesitation discussing politically sensitive topics, they welcomed it. We had a good time talking about it.

We talked until 10 pm. After the students left, E. talked with us about ideas for the future. Few people bought the snacks or had drinks, which presents a problem business-wise. L. and I talked about possibly renting the place for him just to keep it open so we can do more English corners and sell some food there. Our presence as foreigners are a BIG attraction. We definitely see opportunities here. The café suffers from being remote from the campus. We'll see things work themselves out. I talked with one guy who used to be L's student from last year. He mentioned that he was a fish. I told him that we were fishes as well and he said "that makes us brothers and sisters".

Tuesday, March 22, 2005

Monsoon season

We spent most of the day doing household chores. While doing laundry, the sky grew ominously hazy, then dark. Rain came down in buckets, sending students studying on the grass field below running frantically for cover. We could hear them yelling as they were running. It was quite the downpour! We quickly brought the hanging laundry in. Water leaked through our windows in the computer room, which we contained using plastic pans. Thunder and lightning filled the dark clouds. Strong wind blew through the campus. The storm ended in about half-hour, followed by clear skies and sun. That only lasted for about 2-3 hours, at which the clouds, wind, and rain came again. This went off and on about 3-4 times throughout the day and into the evening.

L. and I tried out our walkie-talkies for the first time. With AA batteries costing but rmb 1 for 4 of them, it'd be a cheap way to keep in touch over short distances. The TV reception went out, so we spent the rest of the evening watching "Ice Age" and other DVDs, while working on the computer. And cleaning up after the storms that blew in throughout the day.

Monday, March 21, 2005

ESL "Hangman"

Tonight's class went well. Didn't overwhelm the students as much this time. The material off http://www.eslgold.com was better for the new students. Jordan helped out a lot copying the material. I made up a worksheet laying out the English alphabet, along with each letter's pronunciation in pinyin, how they're used (or not used) in pinyin, and how they're used in English. In the last half-hour, we played "Hangman" using simple words, which seemed a hit with the students. They'd never seen this game before. I'll have to find some more games....looks like a good way to learn.

Sunday, March 20, 2005

Visiting a 3-self church

We decided to fellowship at the 3-self church today. S. hasn't been there yet and wanted to check it out. It's quite a hike from where we are, in terms of public transportation, and probably very expensive by taxi. Of course, we opted for public transportation. We took the 523 bus to a busy area and took a taxi from there to the nearest subway station. From our destination subway stop, the church is about a 20 minute walk.

As we came closer to the building, we could hear the sweet strains of "Lord, I Lift Your Name On High" in English. If you don't get there early enough, it's pretty touch to find seating, it's always packed out. As we arrived, people were standing at the entrance, waiting to be seated once the singing was over. The service was conducted in Chinese with English translation. The Scripture reading was from Isaiah 53, highlighting Jesus' suffering and also drawing parallels with Job's.

After the sermon, there is usually a time of personal testimony that is set ahead. Miss L. shared about her struggles and frustrations in finding a job. She'd sent 60 resumes, with no response. She would cry every night and question her worth, but gave it up to God. She eventually found a job that has her working 13 hours a day. (Seems a bit too long for a daily quota). She drew her talk to a close saying that speeches are like mini-skirts; the shorter, the better. (Interesting!)

S. wanted to stay for the 2-4 pm BS, but I was still pretty sick, so we went home.

Later that evening, S. went to meet some other guys for English BS with some teachers. I stayed home and rested.

Saturday, March 19, 2005

Chinese b'day party

If you were at our wedding in Boston, you might have met one of our friends, J., from England. He visited last year, met one of my students, a lovely girl, and has been in a relationship with her for the last year.

Anyway, he decided to come to GZ to celebrate this b'day this year. It was good to see J. again and catch up, since we weren't able to at the time of the wedding. C., his girlfriend, organized the party and invited about 30 people there. We were introduced to many of her friends, mostly women in their early 20's. Although, i think J. S. and I were the only ones who spoke English. A couple "games" were played, we were surprised how much was loaded with sexual innuendo.

I was not feeling well (been sick for a couple days now), and we decided to call it a night around midnight. C. bargained a cab for us and we came right home.

Happy Birthday, J.

Friday, March 18, 2005

Jazz!?

Our university is part of a team to promote cultural interaction and frienship through fine arts, in the city of GZ. So during the course of the year, we have several concerts by pianists, guitarists, orchestras, etc. Today was a jazz concert.

We took the shuttle from our campus to the main one, where the concert hall is located, and had a couple hours to kill before the actual concert. So, we decided to have dinner at a Hunan restaurant where i am good "friends" with one of the waitresses. The weather was somewhat agreeable, so we decided to eat outside. As we were finishing our meal, all the restaurants that had tables outside started folding their tables up, as did our restaurant. Turns out the "gong an" were making their rounds. They parked their truck in front of our restaurant and waited impatiently for the staff to put everything away, including our table. We weren't quite done, but they started putting away our table, all the time apologizing to us. S. continued to finish off the rice in his bown as we stood there watching the scene. We got a RMB 3 discount on our tab for the trouble. First the Banana Lady, now this... Black Market Parking Lots?

We walked to the campus auditorium for the jazz concert, picked up our tickets which put us at the very back of the balcony - the nosebleed section. The jazz combo was a univeristy group from Oklahoma. After they gave a 10+ song performance, a few university students gave music performances on Chinese and band instruments. It ended rather awkwardly.....the last performance (which sounded akin to a junior high marching band) should've been a warm-up to the main attraction. Welcome to China.

Tonight's TV break:

  • Sesame Street
  • Pinky and the Brain
  • "Fight Club" on the Pearl Channel
  • Thursday, March 17, 2005

    And now the news...buy our goggles to make you taller!

    I completed the first 3 lessons for the Monday's Beginning English class and sent them to Jordan. This ESL Gold website is great!

    L. is feeling a bit under the weather. We both have scratchy throats and have been sneezing, but it's been hitting L. harder.

    We watched "60 Minutes", featuring reports on Enron and Ken Lay, Ayaan Hirsi Ali and the Islam-critical movie "Submission", and George Lucas' final "Star Wars" movie (all with Chinese subtitles). We finished with the local news and "Late Night With David Letterman". ATV World broadcasted all this....I guess they're a CBS affiliate of sorts. "Pearl" might be an ABC affiliate of sorts.

    The local English-language news, broadcast from Hong Kong, gets reports that China will censor at its discretion. This is done by airing a "half-eaten" commercial suddenly in the start of a controversial news report and abruptly returning back to the news when the station feels the report is over. Curious, funny, irritating at the same time. The infomercials I mentioned earlier this month are also useful in blocking out certain content, which makes some sense....I can't imagine these informercial items being that popular that they need to broadcast them in daytime hours. But I also learned that what's blocked out is not necessarily censorship. I heard from one of the students that this may also be a way to keep people from seeing certain programs that require additional payment (since our reception is cable).